A blog about how much I f*cked up my life…

And how much I’ve tried to unf*ck it, from health, wealth, romance and every possible area you could think of - yes, I f*cked it.

Welcome to Unf*cked—I’m so glad you’re here! (I think…)

Welcome to my brand-new blog! Here, I’m sharing real, unfiltered thoughts on navigating adulthood, figuring out who we are, and embracing the messy (and often hilarious) journey of self-discovery.

Right now, I’m definitely more “messy” than “evolved.” But I’m here to share the highs, lows, and everything in between. Who knows? Maybe together, we’ll uncover some clarity along the way.

Thanks for stopping by—stick around and let’s dive into the chaos together!

Let me know what you think!

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Omg, I Ran Out of Money in the First Week of January... Happy New Year!
Omg, I Ran Out of Money in the First Week of January... Happy New Year!

Omg, I ran out of money by January's first week, despite double pay in November. Now, I’m brainstorming ways to survive the month, tackle emotional spending, and make 2025 a turning point.

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How Journaling Helped Me Untangle 26 Years of Mental Clutter – Here’s How I Got Started!
How Journaling Helped Me Untangle 26 Years of Mental Clutter – Here’s How I Got Started!

After years of therapy, it wasn’t until I picked up a pen that I truly began to reconnect with myself. In this post, I dive into how journaling helped me move from explosive reactions to thoughtful responses, uncovering hidden emotions and healing deep wounds along the way. From the catharsis of morning pages to locked journals for privacy, discover how writing can help you process, grow, and regain control of your life. Plus, I’m sharing my tips on how to get started, even if journaling feels intimidating or difficult.

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Does it feel like there’s a major shift happening… or is it just me?
Does it feel like there’s a major shift happening… or is it just me?

This year has been a turning point for me, filled with moments of self-reflection and growth. I realised I had been allowing negative energy and weak boundaries to drain my emotional and mental well-being. I spent too much time trying to please others and ignored my own needs in the process.

But I've learned that personal growth starts with nurturing my own happiness, respecting my boundaries, and choosing to invest in relationships that genuinely uplift me. It’s not about labelling people as "toxic", but about recognising where I’ve allowed my energy to be taken, often unknowingly, and shifting my focus to what truly nourishes me.

This journey is about watering my own garden—caring for my well-being and embracing the positivity around me. The more I tend to my own needs, the more I grow.

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